Hey there @Healandlove 🌺🙂
No worries at all, more then happy to sit and hold space for what can be a very challenging place to be in 💜🌺
That’s really great news seeing your therapist helped, and further EMDR is being planned for you - especially after having experienced a bit of EMDR today and feeling a change 🙂🌺
It’s really hard to be in a place where the impact of traumas has a ripple effect, however I gently say that I see the bravery and hope that it takes to continue on, along with the resilience to cope while working towards moving forward, and how much this may not feel like a strength, but it totally is 🙂🌺💜
Thank you so much regarding getting things done - sometimes my physical health tries to capture my emotional health, which then influences how much I can get done, but I try my best to let my spirit and heart lead their own lives, and not be taken prisoner by my physical state, if that makes sense? 🙂🌺
Yes, divorce is hard, no doubt…but, there are times when sticking it out through hard times is what matters, as opposed to releasing the bond - the difference imho and in my experience, was when the direction changed from both of us trying to pull things in the same direction while maintaining commitment to each other (what makes it worth trying), to one of truly going in different directions with different purposes other than trying to collectively make things better. I felt, while there was connection, there was hope 🙂🌺
Having said that though, everybody’s situation is different, and there’s different aspects of connection and resilience that can endure💜🙂
Happy to hold space anytime Healandlove 🙂🌺💜
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